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Hey Blog,

It's me again.  I have taken a long hiatus from you.  Now, I am ready to give us another shot.

Why now? 

The main reason and the scariest reason is that I am turning 40 this year and I still don't know what I to be when I grow up.  With that milestone approaching, I am hoping you can helm me stay motivated and encouraged to keep soul searching and figure it out before another decade goes by. 

When I was turning 30, I was filled with a lot of anxiety and despair and some of those feelings are starting to creep back in now that I am looking at 40.  I know I will have some of those feelings again, but I am hoping with you that I can better manage them.

A lot has happened since I tried starting this blog.  My wife and I will be celebrating our 15th anniversary this year.  Our two kids are now 13 and 11 years old.  We are living on our own after living with her parents and then my parents for awhile.  These are some of the good things.

Some of the not so good, we have not bought a house yet and do not have much saved.  We have started and stopped the Dave Ramsey plan a few times.  As I am get older, I am starting to experience aches and pains, and acid reflux.  So I need to add health and physical improvement to the To Do list.

I do see some things turning in our favor lately, and my hope is to find a tool to help me stay on track and be accountable to my goal and my vision.  My general goal is to become healthier physically and financially. 

My vision is to strengthen my family tree so that it stays rooted in success for generations.

I look forward to this journey with you!
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